RIP michael jackson. we had some good times... you know, on the dace floor. you will be truly missed, as made obvious by 200 of my closest homeless friends in 5 points atlanta today. a dj rolled into 5 points, stopped traffic and started a Michael Jackson Appreciation Day dance party.
awesome.
it ended with a billy jean dance off. i jumped in for a few faves--thriller, rock with you, the way you make me feel. what a fun impromtu afternoon. i heart the A.
mj: you are missed and i hope we set up a national holiday in your honor ;)
*ash, i know you're with me on this one
26 June 2009
18 June 2009
one year in the direction of eternity
Having been married for a year (and some change), I decided to write a little bit about a few things I've learned. I hope to learn more and more forever--I want to be a student of my love ;)
trust his wisdom--he's probably right, and even if he's not, he knows that you trust him anyway
let him lead--when you don't, you're stealing a chance for him to develop into more of who is is, who he's meant to be
indulge his dreams--you have to believe in him... even if it seems silly to you, if it's important to him, it's important
listen--always better to listen and hold your tongue
catch him doing good--look for ways to compliment and encourage him when reveals the goodness in his heart
seek out experience to share--things that you both love and can enjoy together
make dates--you only have so many weekends per year and so many sunsets, sunrises, roadtrips, and dinners to share in a lifetime
romance, romance, romance--i just found this quote " you are the only legitimate source of romance in your spouse's life"
have make-out parties--when was the last time you and your hubby just made-out for 30 minutes like you did in college? very fun.
be creative--dream together, plan together, share hopes and dreams for the future you share
leave notes for him to find--in his briefcase, in his lunch, on his desk, under his pillow, surprise him
believe in him--even if it doesn't make sense, even if he may not succeed, it's important to believe in who he is over what he does or wants
support him in all ways in all times--don't undermine him, especially in front of his friends; things can be talked about candidly in private, but not in front of the guys
endure the ebbs and flows--the ups and downs will come, but you have to know that what you have together is more important
make time--quality time. just because you live together doesn't mean quantity replaces quality--you need both
leave and cleave--pick him first, before family and before friends and make that clear to them and especially to him
treat him like a best friend--he is your bff
work together, play together--split up the chores and play list equally, then keep up your side of the bargain, without mentioning if/ when he doesn't
put him first--humility/ submission is all about putting his deal above your deal--whatever it is, it's more important b/c he's more important to you than you are (self-less rather than selfish)
Any other thoughts, advice, knowledge... you know what to do::: post! xoxo
trust his wisdom--he's probably right, and even if he's not, he knows that you trust him anyway
let him lead--when you don't, you're stealing a chance for him to develop into more of who is is, who he's meant to be
indulge his dreams--you have to believe in him... even if it seems silly to you, if it's important to him, it's important
listen--always better to listen and hold your tongue
catch him doing good--look for ways to compliment and encourage him when reveals the goodness in his heart
seek out experience to share--things that you both love and can enjoy together
make dates--you only have so many weekends per year and so many sunsets, sunrises, roadtrips, and dinners to share in a lifetime
romance, romance, romance--i just found this quote " you are the only legitimate source of romance in your spouse's life"
have make-out parties--when was the last time you and your hubby just made-out for 30 minutes like you did in college? very fun.
be creative--dream together, plan together, share hopes and dreams for the future you share
leave notes for him to find--in his briefcase, in his lunch, on his desk, under his pillow, surprise him
believe in him--even if it doesn't make sense, even if he may not succeed, it's important to believe in who he is over what he does or wants
support him in all ways in all times--don't undermine him, especially in front of his friends; things can be talked about candidly in private, but not in front of the guys
endure the ebbs and flows--the ups and downs will come, but you have to know that what you have together is more important
make time--quality time. just because you live together doesn't mean quantity replaces quality--you need both
leave and cleave--pick him first, before family and before friends and make that clear to them and especially to him
treat him like a best friend--he is your bff
work together, play together--split up the chores and play list equally, then keep up your side of the bargain, without mentioning if/ when he doesn't
put him first--humility/ submission is all about putting his deal above your deal--whatever it is, it's more important b/c he's more important to you than you are (self-less rather than selfish)
Any other thoughts, advice, knowledge... you know what to do::: post! xoxo
15 June 2009
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